“Wind over Water”

Things have changed, perhaps people have too. Certainly, you have and so you are enjoying a new relationship with yourself.  There’s been a transformation in your values & subsequently your relationships with others, especially in regard to a woman in your life.  A caring woman close to your heart with whom you have shared emotions or had been there for your during trying times of the heart playing the role as confidant. It seems there was a dramatic change in someone’s way of thinking, a change in values, resulting in no longer seeing eye to eye on things. Emotions ran high and now there’s a question as to whether they hold your relationship in as high regard as they once did. Not too long ago you enjoyed spending time in each other’s company but now you fear that perhaps this relationship has come to an end. There’s no need for any bolds moves of ending, just yet. Despite the apparent turning away, you would like to right this relationship. However, you need to stay true to your values and honor your own worth. It’s not about you reversing your values so that they may have a change of heart. That said, this is not the time to be heavy handed & impose your views on this person if you hope to have any influence at all or achieve a reconciliation. You may have to change your viewpoint if you cannot succeed in sharing it respectfully. This is a time when clarity and truth can pierce through veils of illusion.  A potential to reach them if you can express your heartfelt views with gentle but strong sincerity - holding fast to your principles, ethics & self-worth. But understand there’s still a chance you may still be misunderstood, unable to successfully penetrate their heart at this time. Stand back and don't try to change anyone else. Leave well enough alone and just watch what happens. In the meantime, stay committed to working on yourself, staying true to who you are now preserving your boundaries while respecting others & where they are right now. Certainly, you can keep the door open for a change of heart but if your heart & values cannot be respected, you might have to let this relationship die off and say goodbye.