“Are You Selling Yourself Out?”

Allowing others to give you “the fuzzy end of the lollypop”, will give you loads to feel shitty about.  Rather than getting lost in regret, disappointment & self-pity, pick your head up & turn around- to not only acknowledge the good stuff that remains, but to face where these inequalities lie in your life. Up till now, you may have not recognized how one sided it’s been. You have been challenged to see where you have participating in an emotionally manipulative & unfair power dynamic with some unhealthy people with hidden agendas – all at the cost of your own desires, dreams & wishes. Where there should be a healthy exchange of give & take, you’re making compromises for some ingrate’s benefit only to feel great regret & pessimism later on. Are you getting what you are giving? It’s not always easy to confront toxic situations or relationships with strength & emotionally maturity when you realize that your generosity, good nature or altruism have been taken advantage of. But if it’s your wish to follow your purpose or manifest your dream, you’ll have to grow a backbone. Allowing this to go on will result in trigging feelings of powerlessness & weakness within you. It will be hard to stay clam & balanced when faced with stormy seas & increased pressure from outside events. You can easily be overwhelmed -you’ll just flip your shit. Your full attention & commitment will be needed in order to manage upcoming important concerns that will soon be spotlighted. These matters will have a great ripple effect through your life. Therefore, it will be important to focus on your purpose, the small wins, the value of fair reciprocation, frugality, equanimity and compassion.