”Can you Stay Strong Enough To Walk Away?”

This week finds you standing up to oppression, finding your voice & saying NO to situations that have no future or fail to produce any long-term results.  You finally heeded the warning & are no longer bound by your paralyzing fears nor to bad mistakes. The pressure has lifted and you are more than free now to stop feeling as if you have no choice but to be a victim of your circumstances. Sometimes things just do not work out & you are by no means meant to be married to these failed things; you can always walk away... ALWAYS. And while you should be honored for facing facts, reclaiming your power and finding a way forward, there’s a red-light warning of being tempted once again. Just as you overcame one restrictive circumstance, another situation appears prompting a warning to change course before you revisit another confining environment. Although new, this situation or person has a very familiar air about it. This may be just more of the same you have known before just in different trappings. You have done so much inner work to be finally free, why land in another crap situation? The message of “promised pain, and mental stress” will be yours once again if you do not turn away from backsliding choices.

Decode the clues & recognize the signs before becoming emotionally invested & disappointed. To strengthen your resolve against the obstacle of self-sabotage, it will be necessary to face the unconscious pain, disappointment and lingering regret produced that you may be avoiding. These are preventing you from fully healing & moving on. The Stranger appears to speak to you about your underlying, unconscious and destabilizing issues that need to be healed, reconciled & processed. Allow them to come to the surface & be sorted through properly. Consider why you were challenged in that way & what were the hard lessons learned. Understanding your repeating unhealthy patterns may help avoid a trip back into bondage. Honor the inner quiet whisper cautioning of a potentially negative situation & wanting to GTFO.  Give yourself permission to back away from a course of action that would bring pain & frustration again. You are capable of being strong enough to disconnect yourself from anything unsatisfying – to go and find growth and happiness elsewhere. It’s about taking care of your needs & knowing you don’t ever have to stay in a bad situation again.