“Try a Little Tenderness”

RELATIONSHIP SPREAD: You may be entering into a new phase of your relationship -recently married, new parents, empty nesters, or any point in the lifecycle of a relationship that marks a new beginning. Now holds a promise to start over. A mutual movement from darkness to light once again combined with a focused intention that there will be fulfillment & promises kept. Perhaps, this is a resurrection of what had been previously shelved. A potential for renewal which involves the building of a framework for the future- one you’d like to manifest. As you both consider the future you are weaving, you understand that it will require patience & nurturing to realize or birth this new start. It will also take action. What pulls you apart is the laziness that has snuck into your relationship leaving you feeling unmotivated or preoccupied in your own interests and not engaging your partner. Caught in a pattern of indifference and routine, passion once fresh and alive has wilted. It will take effort to breathe life into this established rut of predictability & staleness. What’s needed is some serious couple time before it’s too late to revive. Engaging in loving physical contact, demonstrations of affection, and intentional acts of kindness can show your partner you care & do not take them for granted. It takes effort to maintain a connection but you have the ability to preserve it by supplying it with what a vibrant healthy relationship needs: affection, novelty & engagement. Time to spice it up.