”The Cost of Our Aggression”

This week speaks to leaving heartache behind by having the nerve to face the unknown, be vulnerable and take a risk in order to progress. Disconnect from the grief by making a decision to take a leap of faith & connect with the world again. Life gives us plenty of opportunities to move forward once we have the bravery to overcome our fear. It was, or perhaps is still, hard getting past loss & the sting of sorrow. Even though you may still be feeling its painful effects, you have gained a new understanding of the events & are open to having forgiveness enter the equation. As you work through the hurt, your hesitation to get back out there can have you feeling stuck experiencing tension & conflict when confronting your environment. The Swords point that it will be your head that will hang you up from moving forward. Your head & heart are looking for a guarantee that you’ll not find disappointment, heartbreak or betrayal. There are absolutely no promises that you will not find that again in the future but, you can’t let that stop you. The Three of Swords speaks to your need to understand circumstances. One of them being, that a person cannot find the new unless they move into the unfamiliar. We could find growth, sweetness or pain. This is the complexity of life. So in spite of all the danger of pain and having little or no evidence that it will work out,  do it anyway. The Three of Swords in reverse also recommends, if you were the author of this recent storm of emotions resulting in hostility or conflict, to make your apologies & move on in sincere reconciliation. Heartache is not permanent & resolution can be made. If none can be found, and these differences between you & others cannot be reconciled, you must muster the courage to move on somehow.