“Saving Some Sweetness for Yourself”  

The North Node in your astrological chart represents the experiences you’ve come here to work on for growth, to master & get right in order to fulfill your soul’s path forward. One could say  your scripted purpose. These are the things you are supposed to be doing yet it feels like unfamiliar territory at times. In a chart, the south node would represent your strength while the North node would be something to work on. Here your strength is in your dedication to your family unit but yet it may be hard for you to prioritize your time for yourself. Gorilla states you are someone whom your family can count on to nurture the family unit, being mindful to their needs or fears and a favorite for problem-solving putting conflicts to rest.  And while it’s important to you to make time for each other, finding rejuvenation in these relationships, it’s equally important to take some time for yourself. If one’s too busy taking care of others, how can you find the needed time alone for contemplation, process & self- transformation? It’s important to remember your own needs as well so save some of that sugar for yourself. Lately, you have been heading in the right direction on this by paying attention to the knowing there’s a change to be made in regard to overextending your time attention & focus but you have been avoiding doing so. Clear communication encourages trust, and trust fosters connectivity. If you hide the truth of this, delaying the enviable, resentment will fester within harming these relationships. If you receive the impulse to be still, follow that and do not feel any guilt nor allow your family to inflict that pain upon you.  Your North Node is directing you to do what makes you feel good or what you are responsible for and let go of any other responsibility to help others to the point of overwhelm or overburden. This way you & everyone else will benefit. A family must nourish everyone but if you are not receiving your fair share, make sure you carve out time for yourself to get that.